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Before you call yourself a Christian woman especially aspiring to be a wife. read your bible carefully especially all of Proverbs 31 and see how much of that matches your character and what you have been shown by the world π€πΎπ£ This is because many listen and are so indoctrinated by this culture and delusion sold which has nothing to do with the bible definition of a wife and helpmate and if we break it down spiritually i always take y`all back to
Gen 2:18 Then God said: βIt is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper as his partner.
This is because the woman was actually made for the man but you keep making it about you.β all the money in the world cant buy love, godly obedience , character and loyalty. This is why many modern women while successful in the corporate world arent successful as wife material and don`t understand the assignment. Big blow to the ego. Being a wife is the ultimate position of servitude. When you serve a righteous man can`t help to make sure you are covered loved and valued.
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Go @realcandaceowens π₯ππΎ your character speaks for itself
Y`all don`t listen.. the bible tells as us clear as day that its your value that the treasure. ( so stop looking at the man) its you !! But this value lies with your character not your entitlements , not independence, not being a sex symbol. ..
I keep saying backwards with the independent strong stuff. That narrative is from the enemy its dead and twisted . your strong when your operating in your GOD given soft feminine role. Interdependence
That man already knows right away. But men also know when your not it . I knew my wife was it in the first few months . your not going to win and keep this thing called love until its by god design . everything else is counterfeit.
GOD himself said it wasn`t good for the man to be alone. You talking about independent. π€πΎππΎββ Genesis 2:18
18 The Lord God said, βIt is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him
Proverbs 18:22 He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the LORD.
Proverbs 31:10 10 Who can find a avirtuous bwoman? for her price is far above rubies. 11 The heart of her husband doth safely atrust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil. 12 She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life.
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Hard Truth alert π¨Excuse the profanity .. Everyone aint not there yet. but her points are more important so y`all pick the right men.
. Remember what we talked about single mothers. Running wild in your younger years being promiscuous, Women taking accountabilty bad choices It all connected y`all.. . We can`t all be wrong.
Please understand i am not absolving men. These types of men are absolutely responsible for their part of the chaos but you queen have to be smarter and think about the future. You gotta choose god fearing men based on their character. Financial provision is important but the other stuff is more important
Ladies When you get into introduced as the wife. This is when the real relationship starts.. What you do before that`s is discovering if your his wife ππΎπ₯
The devils game has been the same since day 1. Tempt you with something you already have . Adam and eve already were made in GODs image as are we. So the thing is satan actually has to make you believe you don`t have the thing !!! π₯π₯π₯ Don`t leave your good thing( your spouse) everything is there .
Its so important for us to see right examples. Especially with individuals who have wealth and options because they have more to be tempted with π₯βπΎ and don`t think sat-an ain`t on double duty .
Let`s look at some other lessons. Ladies, Jezebels are all around this a flagrant spirit other women having tattoos of him π₯΄ ππΎββ. This is why everything cant be about a mans wealth. It has to be about morals first Otherwise you fall in with the other groupies. βπ€πΎ
Fellas the more wealth the more options the greater the responsibility the greater the temptations. That`s why you got be on the prayer floor. Some of the most righteous men have learned this including Solomon . this is why ladies is better to be apart of man`s journey to the top.
Congrats Messi
Keyword is "values" . This is usually because she has those attributes
This is what the bible means by value π₯π¨πΏβπ«π©π½βπ« (not the world)
Proverbs 31 [10] Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies. [11] The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil. [12] She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life. [13] She seeketh wool, and flax, and worketh willingly with her hands.
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Bro if you can`t see her as a wife anywhere along the discovery(dating) process stand down .don`t entangle yourself don`t lead her on sexually or emotionally. This is cruel to mislead and thats why many women are traumatize and have trust issues. Rightfully so. This where many of you go wrong .
#men #godlymen
Echoing last few pst..See ...Ladies that`s why you set the boundaries... If you don`t see yourself and establish yourself as the wife and carry that respect first . They gone come for the free milk .π―π£ I just gave you the entire code.. Men know who they will marry..
The text says "a man who finds a wife". It doesn`t say a man who finds a girlfriend.A one night stand , a hookup...etc etc... This why you have to know your identity. β girlfriend is a social construct π₯ Many are stuck in the lifetime girlfriend trap/scam. The wife is a god given role. Boom
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Consequences for disobedience y`all all of these consequences of sexual sin but we don`t want to face the truth !
Kids out of wedlock
Kids in orphanages/foster care
Abortions
Broken relationships
Single parent homes
Soul ties
Government system involvement
Affairs
Adultery
List goes on and on.
So many examples of this in the bible especially old testament with disobedient Israelites. many of them wiped out directly by GOD !.
No one wants to hear it but you ever wonder why their situation don`t change ππΎββ Everyone is blaming or shaming. No That`s called conviction so you can grow spiritually. ! Matthew 18:15. This is what separates real believers.
But anyone not telling you the truth is not looking out for your soul. You can`t keep blaming others. When you go before GOD your not going to be able to blame any man or woman. All eyes will be on the reel of your life. We make mistakes but we can`t keep deflecting them on others. GOD will deal with them.. But this about you .
#Accountability #correction #disobedience
We may need a masterclass for this
Men and women lie but the scriptures don`t π₯
This right here destroying relationships before they even start whew. If you only understood the spiritual implications.. Stakes are high my friends..many of you don`t see the big picture π₯
Everyone you see involved in this.β (Onlyfans, escort , sleeping around , sex-work, porn-industry, hookups encounters, sex out of wedlock...on a very dark path, and all that gonna Leave you jacked up and empty.
This is why s-atan has such a stronghold over sexual promescuity , perversion. because sex is a spiritual gateway and you give the access. (Men and women)
Make no mistake Sexual promescuity ...
1. Destroys empathy and emotional pair bonding !
2. Destroys sensitivity to stay pure for spouse/future spouse
3. Perverts your own body (per text)
4 comparing all your previous lovers to your spouse π₯βπ€πΎ robbing your of your gift and natural innocence
Makes you less attractive as potential spouse
5 maintains a sexual lust that can never be satisified.
6 high probability of affairs cheating When in marriage( if not delivered )
7 (most important) spiritually uncovered in fornication !while sexing outside of marriage
1 Corinthians 6:18 Run from sexual sin! No other sin so clearly affects the body as this one does. For sexual immorality is a sin against your own body.
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Yall I have nothing against single moms. Ive been there (past) and can tell you from personal experience and of course from the spiritual perspective. This is why many women have to reel in their crazy expectations and understand reality.
A lot of men (not all).dont want to be in second place with your kids especially if they`re considering you as a wife. Coupled with bad independent attitude β Unless that man is a single dad himself blended family is a different dynamic. The other aspect is yes the sleeping around.(Sexual promescuity) Nothing but soul ties your just used to hearing body count or sexual partners. Its all the same. Like the lady on the bottom said regardless of what feminism says Every time you lay down to these random people your not married it takes a piece of you and makes it harder to bond with your real husband.
Gotta stop hooking up with the "bad boy"
They give you the world definition. We give you the spiritual.. This is just a consequence. Lot of you unfortunately see this later down the road when you want a real Godly man to step in.
Paul tells us the dangers of sexual sin
1 Corinthians 6:18 Run from sexual sin! No other sin so clearly affects the body as this one does. For sexual immorality is a sin against your own body
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Everyone wants to be a boss , no one wants to be a servant. Yall dont see the correlation with marriage and realationships. Everyone wants to take no one is giving. Thats why yall see folks aint winning with love !π«₯ Jesus himself gave the ultimate example..
Matthew 23:11
11Β The greatest among you shall be your servant
Yall got the thing backwards .. ββπΎ
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Send them back to the arc...π€£.jk Brooo π€£ and she hit you biblically.... See the same way yall put that on woman...yall be wanting to settle down looking for a virgin after you done had your hoe phase. βπ₯΄π€¦πΎββ now your in a different dating market .
Men your part...you have to be real and understand a lot of the destruction and trauma to many women, comes from men who have been reckless with promiscuity.
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Its not having standard. its the standards your using that`s the issue . βWhen your it for him, trust me it dosen`t have to be anncounced. Move quietly in humility & gentleness in all your femininity. β The right man will you praise and adore you.
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I think a lot of men can overlook at lot of it. (Except active promiscuity and men in the background) Just like women can overlook a lot but the entitlement thing yall, is whats sabotages it .
No one has to accept any of it. You win over love through your character and spirit not this self seeking me me me attitude and posture monster that has been created with this western culture.
Until this generation of men and women stop competing and looking for these transactional relationships and humbles itself they will not find a lasting love.. Relationships are not about what you get but what you give ... Helpmate helper...
Mam its a difference between providing and Trying to live lavish and flex like the Jones.π«’
Brothers of course you should be ready to provide for any woman your considering as a wife sir. But we have to use wisdom. GOD wants us to also be good stewards( live within your means . Guys if she wants a more lavish lifestyle outside of what you can provide send her on her way ! Do not marry her π₯
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πΏββ Finances are important money is a resource we all need however . Its "the love of money" the bible says is the issue its when you put it above your most precious relationships. Its an issue of the heart yall !. Thats what GOD looks at. This is why these folk are the first ones to the court with all types of prenups looking for what assets they can get. (Thats another post)
Ladies be careful stop following modern feminst examine your heart !its more important to qualify that man`s moral character .
Trust me The 5% of men that 80% of women go after that have this wealth are surely not going to be looking for a woman who feels entitled to it ..
1 Timothy 6:10 NIV
For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil. Some people, eager for money, have wandered from the faith and pierced themselves with many griefs.
Matthew 19:24
Again I tell you, it is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for someone who is rich to enter the kingdom of God.β
New Living Translation
Iβll say it againβit is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich person to enter the Kingdom of God!β
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I need y`all to take a few and digest that ππΎπ₯π’π’.. Reconcile with your peter but you gotta release the Judas because its that inside betrayal π₯π₯π₯
Its different when the heart is into and you marry for true love ..Wheew those are vows.π«‘π’π₯ She said let Heaven hear ! forever submit ....Alright we rooting for You. But you on the line with that covenant ππ₯π. Love it. Fellas y`all cant mess this up..
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